WINGMAN online training

Effective Seduction: From Meet to Bed in 3 Steps


This is not a theory course or pick-up artist fantasy. It’s a real-world, street-proven training that teaches you: — How to confidently talk to women anywhere
— How to spark real attraction fast
— How to avoid the friend zone forever
— And how to escalate to intimacy without awkwardness or rejection drama

FREE MINI-COURSE: How to Get Her Number Even if You’re Nervous or a Complete Beginner

🟢 Where to meet women — description of places, locations, and their characteristics
🟢 How to initiate communication — how close you can get, how to approach if she’s standing or walking
🟢 Conversation openers — which phrases to use, which to avoid, examples of good openers, structure based on context and her behavior
🟢 Compliments — when and how to give them, which ones to avoid, how a bad compliment can ruin the interaction
🟢 Ending the conversation — when to do it, at what moment, how to end it in a way that makes her want to see you again
🟢 Getting the phone number — how to do it naturally and smoothly
🟢 Real-life examples — quick number closes and situational tactics
🟢 General structure of an approach — for balanced skill development
🟢 Minimum appearance requirements — so she doesn’t run away at the sight of you
FREE MINI-COURSE: How to Get Her Number
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A massive knowledge base that competitors price at $350+
$49/month
  • Our Philosophy
  • Communication Structure and Timing During an Approach
  • Women's Perspective on Relationships
  • hree-Stage Seduction Structure
  • Minimum Appearance Requirements
  • Where to Meet Women
  • How to Initiate Communication
  • Best Opening Lines
  • Creating Interest During the Approach
  • Compliment Techniques
  • How to End a Conversation Properly
  • General Structure of a Successful Approach
  • How to Take a Phone Number Naturally
  • Facing Fears of Approach
  • Psychological Techniques for Emotional Control
  • First Date Preparation
  • Phone Call Techniques
  • The Core Principle of Seduction: Comfort in Communication (Rapport)
  • Creating Emotional Comfort During Interaction
  • Verbal and Non-Verbal Calibration
  • How to Structure Dialogues Properly
  • Guaranteed Topics for Building Comfort
  • Fine Psychological Tuning of Her Perception
  • Handling Low Attraction or Negative Reactions
  • Critical Mistakes That Kill Comfort and Communication
  • Universal Conversation Topics and Forbidden Topics
  • Nonsense Generator Skill
  • Second Date Preparation
  • The Importance of Physical Touch
  • Getting Feedback Through Kinesthetic Tests
  • Advanced Touch Techniques
  • Persistence and Her Compliance Tests
  • Game-Changer Move
  • Friendzone: How to Escape or Avoid It
  • Feedback and Reflection
  • Third Date Strategy
  • Storming the Final Bastion
  • Health and Safety in Intimacy
  • After Sex: Relationship Management
  • Ending the Relationship Properly
  • Bonus Topic: Model of Male Sexual Attractiveness
  • Bonus Topic: Positive Mindset and the Origins of Charisma
49 usd/month
Free mini-course
Do this quick course and you'll get that hottie's digits.
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  • Minimum Appearance Requirements
  • Where to Meet Women
  • How to Initiate Communication.
  • Best Opening Lines
  • Compliment Techniques
  • How to End a Conversation Properly
  • General Structure of a Successful Approach
  • How to Take a Phone Number Naturally
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Why This Training Beats Books and Dating Apps
Feature Our Training Self-Improvement Books Dating Apps
Practical real-world experience
Focus on charisma and emotional intelligence ⚠️
Teaches active initiative ⚠️
Control over first impressions
Teaches to overcome rejection ⚠️
Real-life social skills (bars, street, parties) ⚠️
Teaches to earn attention naturally ⚠️
Saves time and money long-term ⚠️
Boosts real social confidence ⚠️
Makes you unforgettable

📚 Books give you theory.

📱 Apps give you false hope.

🚀 Only real-world training gives you lasting, life-changing skills.

A bit about us and what we do
We're a team of coaches who spent years running in-person trainings across Europe and Asia. Our flagship program lasted 2 weeks and cost around $1000. This was an intense time-constrained bootcamp - only about 25% of the 30-person groups would make it to the end.

We used radical methods to push students. For example: each participant would give the coach €20 with a challenge - get 30 phone numbers in 4 hours. Succeed? You got your money back. Fail? The coach would tear up the €20 bill right in front of you. The program was packed with such exercises designed to crush fear, shyness and limiting beliefs.

But those who completed it experienced incredible transformation. By the end, guys typically had 2-3 girls actively dating them. After COVID-19, we moved online - slashing costs and removing time constraints. Now students learn at their own pace.

To date, over 20,000 men worldwide have completed our program, now available in 3 languages.

Our team

It all began as my personal startup where I shared my experiences with other guys. Gradually, my top students joined the team, significantly enhancing our training program. They developed new modules like 'Style Awareness' and 'Charisma Foundations,' and refined the practical approach to body-emotion connection.

  • Den -Gremlin-
    Coach
    Den is the ultimate example of a self-made man who mastered success with women. Despite lacking natural charisma or model-good looks from childhood, he now enjoys incredible popularity with women! His calm demeanor, analytical mind, systematic approach, and deep understanding of female psychology have made him an indispensable expert in dating and building fulfilling relationships.
  • -Valek-
    Creator of 'Male Attraction & Charisma Mastery' program
  • Richard -Bullet-
    Certified psychologist, author of the 'Communication Comfort' module and game-changing techniques
  • Mikle -Creator-
    Coach, creator of the online training program 'Wingman - Effective Seduction', motivational leader and organizer
  • Just two weeks. 16 days.
    And in that time, my whole view on women flipped upside down. Now, when I see a hottie, I don’t just stare—I walk the fuck up and start talking. On the street, in public transport, in shops, even in sketchy basements 😉.
    Clubs? Whole different beast.
    In these 2 weeks, I completely stopped stressing about “what to say to a girl.” Most of the classic chick tests—I blow through them on autopilot now.
    Boyfriend? “Busy 24/7?” That shit used to freeze me up 😂.
    First dates? Never thought it could be that easy.
    Second dates? Nice.
    Third ones? Real nice.
    Crazy to think I used to get nervous just meeting a girl I’d known for six months—never even had the balls to show interest.
    Bottom line, boys — Wingman training was exactly what I needed.
    The theory? Tons of it—and all of it solid.
    It was delivered in an easy, funny, down-to-earth way—full of jokes and wild stories.
    The exercises were well thought out—step by step, simple to savage.
    If you’d told me on Day 1 what I’d be doing on the final day… I probably would’ve shit myself and run 😆.
    I pushed myself to approach really hot girls—the kind that make your stomach drop just looking at them.
    At the end of the training they asked, “What would you share with your friends from all this?”
    And honestly… nothing. My old friends wouldn’t give a damn.
    When it comes to women, their only argument is: “I’ve got a big dick.”
    But guess what? Even with all that length, they still ain’t getting laid.
    Like one guy in the group said —
    "Time to upgrade your friends."
    P.S.
    While writing this, I got two messages from two different girls asking to hang out in this gorgeous weather.
    This is the life I dreamed of.
    Stay in touch, fellas. Don’t disappear.
    Lim Jun Jie
  • Yo guys!
    I was hitting the missions hard, full throttle—but yeah, by evening and night I’d feel totally drained (I think a lot of us were in that boat). By the next weekend I finished all the exercises except the smile one—only managed around 15–17. But when it came to numbers and dates, I went above and beyond.
    The second weekend felt tough at first—zero results in the first 40 mins—but then I pulled myself together and got it done. Still feel a bit proud about that grind 😎.
    Then Monday came... and boom—first sex the classic way, third date.
    Had two more girls where I got to second dates, but no thirds yet.
    Last weekend?
    Awesome theory again, solid fieldwork—and then outta nowhere: second lay.
    Saturday afternoon, Harbour City—I spot this girl in heels, short skirt, holding an ice cream. Behind her Like 4–5 guys orbiting with dumb grins. I walk up and say, “I’m here to save you from your stalkers,” pulled her aside and grabbed the number.
    Evening comes—she texts me to call her. I call, we set up a date.
    Next thing I know, I pick her up from Harbour, head to my place, hookah, movie—and straight in. No resistance, smooth as hell. I was honestly surprised—like, 90 minutes earlier I was still sitting at a Wingman briefing 😂. Left her at my place till morning.
    Now, some thoughts and takeaways.
    First—singing in public? Nowhere near as scary as I imagined. Truth is, nobody gives a damn.
    After that exercise, approaching girls felt automatic. On emotional highs, it was super easy to get numbers.
    Not gonna lie—my vibe wasn’t consistent the whole two weeks. Had ups and downs. But that’s probably normal.
    Also realized one HUGE thing that I think applies to every guy who did Wingman:
    You gotta learn to smile.
    Sounds dumb and basic, but trust me—it changes the game. If you get used to smiling naturally, it lifts your mood and makes you 10x more approachable. That one thing alone makes life easier.
    But yeah—overall I did some serious work. There are tons of girls out there, and no reason to obsess over any one of them. Life’s smoother when you don’t cling.
    Before Wingman, I was leaning toward serious relationships—now I’m chill about it, only considering that if it really makes sense.
    One of the best takeaways?
    The three-date system.
    Now I just wanna test it on different girls and lock in some same-night stands at clubs.
    Not sure how long this high is gonna last, but we’ll see.
    One thing I am sure of—Wingman is legit as hell. I could write way more, but no point clogging the airwaves here 😁
    So shoutout to all the guys who went through this—wish you tons of wins out there. Keep crushing it!
    Lee Wai
    training participant
  • Well, these two crazy weeks have come to an end…
    My life has changed beyond anything I could have imagined. Looking back, I can’t believe how much I’ve transformed. Just a short while ago, approaching a beautiful girl on the street felt like something out of reach. Now? I do it automatically. I approach every attractive woman I see, whether I feel like it or not—I just go for it.
    When I’m headed somewhere, I’m chatting with beautiful women along the way without even thinking twice. I’ve noticed my entire perspective on life has shifted. I genuinely don’t care anymore what people might think of me—I live for myself now.
    One of the most eye-opening moments was singing in the subway and seeing the looks on people’s faces—it was incredibly freeing. Turns out, most people are actually pretty positive and open.
    The training itself was absolutely insane—I’ve never felt that kind of energy before in my life. The amount of theory we went through helped me see so many things in a new light. From the “three-date structure,” to fmacf, openers, and so much more—just wow.
    To all the guys who went through this with me—massive respect. I watched you transform in real time, just like I did. In just two weeks, a bunch of shy guys turned into legends.
    Keep the fire burning, brothers! You’ve got this!
    P.S.
    In just 16 days of training, I slept with 4 girls, added 36 new contacts to my phone, and had 3 Same-night stand.
    And this is just the beginning—there are tons more fast pulls coming!!!
    David Rochdale
  • That’s it. The wingman training is done. Feels unusual to spend an evening at home reading instead of doing street drills or going on dates))
    As our coach says: what matters isn’t your absolute skill level after training, but the delta – the measurable change between where you started and where you finished. Let’s break down that delta.
    Day 1: First time ever cold-approaching girls just to say hello. Crippling anxiety, legs like rubber, drenched in sweat.
    Final day: Approach confidently, establish rapport within 5 minutes, receive clear nonverbal cues for a kiss.
    Every option is now available. It’s purely about choice.
    Key insight: Attractive women are actually easier to talk to. The interaction flows naturally. Ironically, I used to believe the opposite.
    P.S.
    This training easily ranks among my top 2 most life-changing experiences. To the team – you’re exceptional."
    Friedrich
🧠 1. Own Your Life
  • No more excuses. No more blaming "bad luck" or "timing."
  • You are 100% responsible for your results — the wins and the failures.
  • Growth starts the moment you take full ownership.
🟢 "I couldn’t do it" becomes — "What did I do wrong, and how can I improve?"

💪 2. Go Until Failure
  • Most guys quit way before their real limits.
  • In this course, we train like fighters — pushing past mental walls until real growth begins.
🟢 If your face didn’t hit the floor — you could’ve done one more push-up.

😈 3. Women Want Attention
  • Stop overthinking. Women don’t dress up for the mirror.
  • They love male attention — when it’s bold, masculine, and playful.
  • Your fear of approaching her is nothing compared to her fear of being invisible.

🔄 4. Adapt or Die
  • The average guy repeats the same pickup lines — and gets nowhere.
  • Our students experiment, evolve, and adjust.
  • After every approach, we ask: “How can I do better next time?”
🟢 This course builds flexible social intelligence, not robotic routines.

😌 5. Enjoy the Game
  • If you’re not having fun, you’re doing it wrong.
  • When you feel great — she does too.
  • Flirting isn’t a job — it’s a damn good time.

🌍 6. Everything Is Possible
  • Getting her number in 30 seconds? Possible.
  • Hooking up the same night? Possible.
  • Making her yours without games or apps? 100% possible.
If someone’s doing it — so can you.
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